been a while right...i dont know why...tp bila dtg mood malas nak update tu...idea bertimbun pon tgn nie xnak menaip...tapi klu time nak update tu...time xde idea camnie pon bleh je menaip...ahahahaha...
ok, so here the deal...about the past...masa silam yg mana terlakar sebelum tibanya hari ini....masa silam yg tidak boleh dilupakan...thx to memory for that...but boleh dipilih samaada untuk dihargai atau tidak....so mcm biasa la...di blog nick nie...nick ambil masalah percintaan dijadikan sebagai contoh...jeng jeng jeng....
so what should we do when the past come knocking??? nick pernah terdengar satu quote nie...and its quite usefull la...not totally usefull...it state that
"When the past come knocking...dont look back...theres nothing new to be told...or seen"
yes its true...when ur ex come back knocking...what u expect??? she/he still love you???if that so...then nape dia tggl korang??? wanna be friend??? nape bila ade masalah je bru nampak batang hidung??? friend acik kau...hahahaa...what im try to say here is...maybe dia datang smula semata2 boring or perlukan tempat mengadu...dengan bahasa kasarnya...nak buat korang jadi spare tire yang mana akan dibuang or maybe disimpan untuk kegunaan lain di masa akan datang...ala...typical girl/boy la...come on la...jgn deny la...korang pon thu ape yg nick tulis nie betol....kan kan kan???
so how to face it??? xkan nak tinggalkan camtu je kan???selaku seorang yang baik hati (macam nick)...xkan kita nak biarkan je...walaupon kite tahu kite just dipergunakan je...so this is what u should do la...
Layan Sekadar Layan
- yes...layan sekadar layan...layan nak xnak...biar dia sedih korang layan dia mcm tu...dari korang yg sedih bila dia dh dapat partner baru nanti...lyn mereka mcm korang baru kenal...give them shoulder but not to cry...just to lean on...get my point???
And never ever try to jump to ur old history with them...never have any conversation like that!!! amaran keras nie...it wont work...in case if its work pon kan....try fikir, frank advice dr nick...if they can hurt u once...why on earth do you think that they wont hurt u again???unless tetibe korang menang loteri hadiah juta2...kofem pompuan tu x tggl korang punya...ops...did i mention perempuan???hahahaa...sory...x jumpe pulak butang backspace kite kat keyboard nie....
Try To Avoid
- Abaikan mereka....kalau korang rasa diri korang lemah dengan godaan...masih x dpt get over them...than the best way is avoid them....If they suddenly come and call u b/hubby/sayang/abang or whatever la...bitch slap them hard...real hard...bg sengal terus gusi tu...baru skang reti nak ber-b babi nyer...time tinggal tu x ingat pulak...lepuk gak org camnie...
kenape perlu avoid??? well mudah...first korang x get over her lagi kan??? so trust me when i say that korang la ikan yg paling senang tersangkut dek mata kail...they can easily use u as they will...or kalau diorg x gunakan korang pon...(actually dah dipergunakan pon...sebagai tempat persinggahan)...korang pasti akan terasa kehilangan...rasa kehilangan yg sama...or maybe lebih teruk dari masa first2 dia tinggal korang dulu...see...x caye???try ar~
Be Mean
- jadi kejam...by kejam...nick x suh korang gi tikam dia ok...kejam dari segi layanan...jgn nak lyn rengekan dia...nak bg nasihat, biar smash stepek terus atas pale dia...lagi bagus kalau korang halau je dia terus...jgn nak jaga2 hati sgt dah...and kalau boleh...bercakap pon biar guna kau-aku...x pyh nak bersaya awak sgt la...dengan adik bradik pon x guna...nie pulak ngan dia si outsider...
biar diorg rasa korang dah x menyayangi dia...(well u should actually)...biar diorg rasa diorang dah xde nilai istimewa dah buat korang...and kalau boleh...biar dia x dtg dah cari korang...x pyh byk ckp, halau terus dia...thats even better...coz nick tahu...stiap kali si dia dtg...dia bawak skali pisau tuk belah semula parut yg dh sembuh tu...its hurt...they cut it a bit deeper than before...to make it worse, they will leave without healing the wound back...(perghh ayat...perghhh)...trust me...6t dtg balik pakwe dia yg kekonon tgh merajuk tu...korang terus disampahkan la jwbnya...
tapi mungkin jugak dia datang membawa berita gembira...masih ada kemungkinan itu walau sedikit...so korang define la sendiri...how should u treat them...nick just bg tips je...yg melaksanakan korang...and yg akan menanggung akibat pon korang...so...fikir betol2 k...
peeace no war~
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